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Chapter 5

Home abandonment prevention program

 
IV. WORK WITH FAMILIES  
   
  Based on the history of the Home Abandonment Prevention Program, as stated in chapter II, and the conclusions of research made along with the conviction that it was feasible to prevent the home abandonment, in 1985 the YMCA of Bogotá designed a program focused on the prevention of children abuse and families support to have access to basic services and integral formation processes.

In 1987 a second investigation and the first impact evaluation of the program were done. This evaluation showed that families that had participated in the guiding processes didn't have any home abandonment cases, and they had changed their perceptions regarding punishment measures minimizing the conditions that led children to leave home .

The program gradually embodied components jorned to several alternatives which included complementary programs within the communities and coordination with other organizations to expand the coverage and be more effective.

Interested in continuing the investigations, the YMCA made an agreement with the Faculty of Psychology of Santo Tomás University in 1992. This agreement was made to iniciate a joint investigation into the families ussues as detined by the YMCA-USTA model. This is compiled and written under the name of "MODEL OF PREVENTIVE WORK WITH UNDERPRIVILED FAMILIES" published by Santo Tomas University in 1992. This model has been improving and adjusting to the changes that has been made in the families and their environment, as well as the deep interest of the YMCA to offer better alternatives to the underprivileged families and communities, with the aim to minimize the risks related to school drop outs, formation of gangs, drug addiction, prostitution amongst other problems.

The new focus facilitates the approaching from a global vision and aims to influence all the aspects that affect the life quality of the families striving to have an impact not only in economical aspects, but also in environment and surrounding aspects that benefit families' health and well being, especially that of the children.

In the new focus, there are also instruments and indicators that facilitate the identifying of the most critical factors, the follow up and measuring of families´ advancements and regressions.

 
See chart PREVENTIVE ATTENTION PROCESSES WITH FAMILIES EXPELLERS OF BOYS, GIRLS AND YOUNG PEOPLE FROM THEIR HOME
  From this new perspective it has been necessary to articulate the family process more efficiently with the community processes and designing more group activities to deal with issues and establishing time frameworks for the accompanying of the processes being made with the families  

 

1. The Model

a. Systemic Vision

A system is understood as a whole integrated by parts that depend one and each other. In the systemic approach, the family is considered as a whole different from the sum of its members.

The family is a system composed by a net of relationships each with their own features focused on satisfying the psycho affective necessities of its members. As in any system, it has its limits whose function is to montain and protect its members montain keeping a stable system.

The family as a system fits in the concept of "circle causality" what happens to a person in the family affects the other family members.

 
 

b. Strategic approaching

The strategies to approach the family problems include actions that must meet the following requirements:

  1. To know and comprehend the conditions of a context;
  2. To appeal to several solution alternatives and include all those involved in the problem resolution;
  3. To identify the problem with the protagonists and visualize solutions that can be shared by all involved;
  4. To start from the resources and strengths toward possible solutions. Use of their abilities and/or potentials;
  5. Start from the details avoiding generalizations;
  6. To act within the limitations adapting goals that can be reached and take into account the circumstances;
  7. To utilize to all the resources available within the different contexts;
  8. To organize a sequence of actions that are hypothetically relevant for the solution of each problem and anticipate the obstacles and effects either negative or positive;
  9. Focus on the future; and
  10. To anticipate the inconvencive of adjusting the plan on the go
 
  The investigation - intervention from which the model YMCA - USTA was structured, was carried out in Bogotá with 57 families who had children from and on the streets.

Most of the members of the families attended the sessions in their homes which allowed us to observe their relationship in their natural environment with both their family and neighbours. There were also interferences due to limited space.

The families studied were part of a category named "families in crises" as they were facing to great structural instability due to circumstances such as of broken marriages, runaway children, and the lack of resources to satisfy basic needs.

c. Family Composing

88% of the families were composed by more than five members, with an average ranging from 7-8. 59% of the families reported the existence of both parents.

It was observed that the father is physical presence was less frequent inside the family life. Therefore his image was emotionally of minor importance but with a great symbolic meaning, specially for the mothers who keep the hope of being supported by a man eventhough it is not true in reality.

  • The study began from the conception of the family as the primary context of human development, and as a natural system in which all its members are interdependent at variable of ranges depending on the development stage every person in the family and the family as a group.
  • To integrate all variables involved in the description of the phenomenon of extreme poverty and its consequences on children behavior. The model T-Doble ABCX of Family adjustment and adaptation (see graphic) was taken as the reference framework and which analyzes: the kind of family, the type and accumulation of stress sources that the family is exposed to in a particular moment; and its vulnerability to the crises; their way of solving problems; the family's resources; the social support source; the family's self evaluation of its current situation and its general value framework.

In each case, the conjugation of these elements will lead to an adjustment or to a crisis depending on how the family reacts. Bearing in mind that families fullfilling the following characteristics can demostrate better results:

 
a high degree of emotional ties; a high degree of flexibility to satisfy their needs and solve problems; fewer numbers of excessive and ambiguous agitations; a proper ability to define their difficulties and control solutions; a wide net of social support; enough resources to meet basic needs; stable and complete structure; an optimistic and constructive view of life that gives space to the spiritual dimension of the man without setting apart the responsibility he has as an individual.
 
  The categories not only permit to organize the description and evaluation of the family functioning, but also to plan carefully the programs and ways of intervention.
  • To evaluate the sort of prevalent family in the group being studied, the following variables were taken into account-family composition, kind of functioning, age and family life cycle of the members.

Regarding the family´s composition the following characteristics were found:

a. Those families lacking the father's physical or emotional presence prevail. This situation determines the absence of the conjugal and parental subsystem associated to a overloading of affective demands on the mother.

b. The families have a higher number of extended family members than those of other social groups. In a 30% percent of these families, prevailing the mother's grandchildren are present which confirms the continuity of early maternity.

 
 
 

Regarding the life cycle and age of the members, it was observed that most of the families pass through the stages of school age children age and adolescents. However, a fifth of them are in a stage ready to leave their homes or have siblings over 19 years of age while schoolers. A wide rank of ages prevail among the children which prevent the family to overcome one stage of development to go to the next one. This factor contributes to increase the tensions in a specific moment.

Regarding the type of interaction, there is a notorious gap in what the family members know and believe should be harmonic functioning and what really happens. Although they know the importance of the family unit and seem to feel satisfied for belonging to their families, signs of affection are scarce and the relation among them are clouded easily when problems and different points of view of daily life aspects arise.

The father figure appears to be distant and cold with authoritarian and arbitrary leadership. The mother's image is better perceived, however the control over her children behavior is not always enough, which further complicates the relationship and the few successes in solving problems.

  • The above description helps classify these families as fragile and vulnerable to crisis characterized by their negative and harmful reaction before stressing situations. They neither have a clear sense of life nor feel appreciated. They don't feel able to control what happens to them and blame it on accidents or bad luck and blame themselves for their mistakes. They do this most of the times and despite their desire to learn and change they do not get to realize their plans real which increases their feelings of frustration even more.
  • Vulnerability is also associated to an accumulation of tensions that affect the family at any moment. These families have to bear the lack of economical resources for a basic living, the uncertainty of getting through their bad situations, the existence of stressing factors related to the off-balance confrontations entrance and departure of the household members (fathers and sons mainly), the confronting with the police more frequently than in other social status, and their underprivileged condition.
  • The real family resources in relation to economical, academic, housing, health and entertainment possibilities lack so, they count on God and sometimes on themselves to get ahead even though they do not know exactly how. They barely believe in social support and not often resort to the solidarity support of others in similar conditions which explains the failing on a successful working groups.
  • Although they recognize that problems are better solved when thinking, their explosive reaction style leads them to blame and hurt each other instead of joining forces to fight those difficulties. On the other hand, when the children are infants, the mother lacks of a real support needed to find solutions. So they trust in God and themselves.
  • These mothers keep the faith of having a responsible partner able to help them face the requirements of survival without necessarly being a sexual parther. This gives the idea these two aspects are lived a instinctively without assuming them.
    They believe in work as an alternative to overcome their situation but they complain about the few possibilities they are offered. This is a situation that gets worse due to their poor professional preparation.
  • All this suggests that the actions the YMCA carries out on this field must focus taking into account that:

a. They will be more efficient as they embrace a higher level of family functioning.

b. To work only in one level of family disfuntion like is ineffective and with a waste of resources that would be better used in other contexts.

c. The conselling process with specific families and groups may be implemented more strategically if concepts, criteria and tools developed within this investigation are applied in a way that the work evolves and progresses paying close attention to the suebs indicators.

d. Human development psychoeducative processes and community activities are adequate but not enough if the problem of basic resources scarcity is not assisted.

e. It has been productive to work with women, children and youth but endeavors with the fathers of children in and from the streets must be developed, otherwise there is risk of becoming allied with the "victims" losing eyesight that this is still a family problem.

f. It is a priority that in the work with children and youngsters a conscious of responsibility related to sexuality and parenthood as well as values of loyalty toward the original family. Only if the family has a context of cooperation. Abandonment risks decrease and so does the necessity of the State or another agencies to offer protection and institutionalization assistance.

g. It's necessary to keep on working on the inter-agency integration and making stronge government bodies. Is is necessary to continue pressuring the government to look for alternatives to eradicate poverty by developing dignitied work options for those in need. This is an area that the YMCA will continue to work towards but is unable to make any changes independent of the government.

 
   
 

h. As during this analysis the method used in the investigation, has shown its validity, it can continue being developed as a work model inside the YMCA. This way, it guarantees the work systematization and its evolution can be evaluated more clearly and the best ways of couselling can be praised. This is a process that permits the YMCA to be a pioneer in the evolution in this areawhich in the storn term has become a significant contribution not only at a social level, but also to disciplines in charge of this area and the State institutions that must respond for solutions.

i. To implement this model successfully, it is necessary to take into account certain conditions that are outlined as follows:

  • The investigators have to have a certain knowledge, as well as commit with a conceptual and methodological framework, which must be consistant with those of the institution.
  • A knowledge and respect toward the families context, as the community worker las on integral part in the chage process. .
  • Presentation of techniques that promote reflection and self questioning rather than promote teaching concepts son that a commoon vision is developed, understood and adopted by the family.

d. Theory framework

This model was designed based on the proposal of several authors such as: Salvador Minuchin, Olson D.H, Mc Cubbin and Patterson.

There are 4 assumptions of family life which serve as basic:

 
   
 
  1. The families face difficulties and changes as a natural/common fact predictable within their life's cycle.
  2. They develop strengths and basic abilities to promote the family members development and the family itself as a unit. Similarly to protect it from major problems in moments of change and evolution.
  3. The families develop strengths and specific abilities to protect themselves from unexpected stressing factors as well as to better adoptafter the crisis.
  4. The families are benefited and at the same time contribute to the relationship and resources within the community, especially during stressing situations and crisis.
 

This approach begins with two stages during the conflict brought about by change and vitalevents.

One of the stages is "adjustment" and it is associated to the situation that requires minor changes. The other one is "adaptation" and it is related to the circumstances that demand a genuine re-organization of the family.

The adjustment is considered as an effective response to a short-term stitution but there are circumstances in which those strategies are not enough to address the problem, such as those where:

a) The nature of the "stressor" or transition implies a change in the family structure (for example: paternity, divorce)

b) The requests exhaust the existing resources (for example: financial resources)

c) The number and the persistence of non-resolved problems overwhelm the family's resources (for example: constant conflicts with the previous spouse)

d) The family's resources are inappropriate or insufficient to meet the families needs (for example: poor, and single mother with a seriously ill child)

The adaptation would be the outcome of the effort to achieve a level of balance through reciprocal relationships. At the same time, it implies that the crisis may arise from imbalance when the mutual demands are not satisfied in the interdependent systems.

Based on the adjustment models, the following work sessions were designed:
Regarding adaptation and family crisis patterns:

 
 
First Session
History of the family.
Second Session
Family functioning
Third Session
Emotional reactions: affecting and aggressiveness.
Fourth Session
Family's beliefs and future.
 
  For the delivery at the sessions it was necessary to design leisure activities that also thought promoted and reflection effective and interesting. Thus, it was possible to systematize the methodology, to confirm the hypothesis and to obtain the information that validated the model.

The YMCA then designed two additional sessions:

 
 
Fifth Session
Focussed on the evaluation the process and for thie develops the concept of structuring change.
Sixth Session
Ti continue to develop an actren plan for change including details and priorities.

 
  Once the processes a new evaluation of the family´s situation must be is complete done taking into account the achievements up to the moment.

A monitoring plan is structured. Including home visits are periodical evaluations including outcome measurement.

2. Group Processes with "Expeller" families

Group processes that involve the families or their members are promoted at the same time of evaluation processes and individual counselling. In the geographical sectors where a significant number of families that share the same problems and needs, are concentrated, groups orientation are organized. Topics of general interest are raised through the presentation of practical workshops,discussions, reflections, problem analysis of common situations and group works of exploration, integration and projection which are centered around common interests.

In general terms, the process is developed through the following stages:

  • Forming: families who live in the same geographical zone, neighborhood and/or locality, are contacted. Topics are identified and agreements are reached about the way in which the group will work.
  • Training: Elements focused on setting out new ways of confronting issues, conflict resolution, management of reality and dealing with serious or daily problems. Topics of common interest related to problems and needs of the families are taken into account. For example.
    *Emotional links
    *Organization and control
    *Beliefs and values
    *Problems resolution
    *Housing
    *Health and hygiene
    *Education and entertainment
    *Labour and financial matters
    *Environment
    *Individual and legal problems, sexual abuse, mistreatment
    *Education and recreation
  • Family meeting are also carried out within a social context. Quarterly workshops or integration activities are executed with families who have been contacted and with which an individual or group process is involved. It is necessary that these meetings as well as the local meetings, enrich and strengthen the family experiences, their dynamics and functioning as well as to enlarge their social action and their possibility interaction with other families.
 
   
 

3. Inter-family Network

It is necessary to identify the natural social networks for the development of this process. In other words, the inter-relational field of each family group in terms of quantity, kind and quality of possible relations in a specified space and time and determined by guidelines of specific interaction.

Through these networks it is possible to clarify key elements, such cooperation, autonomy and interdependence, team work, community awareness and the coexistence. The above-mentioned constitutes the basic of the social support that strengthening will allow to reach highersupport networklevels of solidarity, unit and promotion, facilitating in the families options for the solution of problems, satisfaction of necessities and self-sustainability.

There are two possibilities of development family networks, we will describe each one of them briefly:

  1. With those families whose geographical location doesn't facilitate the involvement in support groups, it is necessary to investigate family bonds with the purpose of locating a person or group of people who serve as support to the family in crisis with the appropriate assistance, so that the family implements a plan of action focused to overcome the difficult situation being faced. The support group has or is facing a similar situacion.
  2. Another network possibility, which is the most common, starts from the geographical location of the families. Those families that facilitate the promotion and consolidation of their network due to proximity.

The following actions are carried out by the support groups:

  • Motivation and sensitization to cooperation , solidarity and team work for the solution of common problems.
  • Information sessions, integration and socialization of experiences.
  • Reflection about common problems.
  • Potential of alternatives or solution and proposals of action.
  • Agreeing and implementation of proposals of actions.